Stella Smith

13 posts

The Surprising Reason Your Attachment Style Keeps You Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Partners

Do you unconsciously attract emotionally unavailable partners?  Have you had a series of failed relationships? Research suggests that people who have an anxious or fearful attachment style have a history of dating emotionally unavailable or dismissive-avoidant partners. What are the five different relationship attachment styles and how do they relate […]

Warning Signs of Pursuer-Distancer Relationship Pattern of the Emotionally Unavailable

Warning Signs of Pursuer-Distancer Relationship Pattern of the Emotionally Unavailable   Many relationships run into trouble because one partner seeks more closeness while the other seeks more distance. It’s a cycle that psychologists call a pursuer-distancer dynamic.   Typically, during the initial infatuation stage, you both want to spend as […]

7 Dating Tips for Dealing With Dating Jitters after Divorce.  

7 Dating Tips for Dealing With Dating Jitters after Divorce.     Confidence in one aspect of life doesn’t translate to another area of life. You might negotiate million dollar deals at work without breaking a sweat, but that doesn’t mean you’re as confident in your love life. Dating is especially […]